Toni & 9ice got married on July 17th 2008 and by
January 2010, a year and a half later, the marriage
was over. There were several reports at the time that
she was caught cheating.
Toni who has been separated for four years from
singer now turned politician 9ice,said she will say it
once and for all that she NEVER cheated on 9ice
while their one year and a half-year marriage lasted.
Read her post below:
To those who still believe I cheated on my ex. I am
sorry to disappoint you, I never cheated on my ex
hubby. Its not who I am, it will never be who I am.
Tell yourself 1 million times, Toni Payne cheated, it
will never make it true. Nobody caught me in any lie, or in any bad situation, nobody slept with anyone he
was close to. Y all need to put a full stop to that
bullshit. Its old!.
Sometimes, men want their freedom, and the fact is
you cant force them to stay. Same goes for women.
Everyone wont have a perfect relationship, not everyone will stay married forever, we can only aspire
to. Even those that have been married 10 years an d
are busy judging others, do you know your
tomorrow? naaaa you sure don't so curb it abeg. We
can only pray, work, and hope for a good union.
Anyways To address this my ex said this or that issue. Let me just say He has NEVER for once opened
his mouth to accuse me of cheating. He has NEVER
for once opened his mouth to accuse me of sleeping
with anyone he knows. If awon alaiye baje wanna use
our situation then to sell their crap, how is that my
fault? The same media controlling the remote to say I think cheating is ok, are the same who controlled the
remote back then to say his song was about me.
Nobody ever called him to verify or ask before
publishing. I'll admit that we both did not handle the
situation well back then, It was the first time we
would experience such. The tension was plenty and emotions were everywhere.
We should have sorted it privately. which we did try
to do but one rubbish headline and emotions go
buckwild again. I don't wanna sounding like I am
defending him, cos he is responsible for himself, but
in all fairness to him, and because I have a conscience that serves me well, not for once did he tweet, fb,
email, interview anything of the sort. Our issues had
absolutely nothing to do with what the media were
speculating. People took a song he did and turned it
upside down. My crew MIXED AND MASTERED the
song. If it was about me, why would I allow him release it. God gave all of us sense naa.. Some just
chose not to use theirs and chose to believe anything
they read even when the facts are there to sort
through.
The only thing I have blamed him for, was not
coming out on time to refute the claims and allowing it to escalate to that level, he has since apologized
SEVERALLY, we have discussed it privately as we
should have from the jump. I have accepted and
moved on. I have also apologized for losing my cool
on twitter, he has since accepted and moved on.
Really, what more is there. I am not sure what people want from me. Should I hate him forever? Should I tie
him to a post and flog him mercilessly? Should I be a
wicked person and deprive him of his son? If I remain
bitter and upset, please what value will it add to my
life?
Wo, my life is much more simpler than all this. Those who know me well, know this. Those that dont
understand me are the ones who will be forever
outside looking in, speculating crap. I am truly tired
of this topic but since it seems to keep popping up, i
felt it is best to finally address it properly. If anyone
decides to hang on to the lie after this, that is their own cup of tea. I have a talk show to record, poetry
to write and a child to raise. I don talk my own.
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